1. 她没家庭负担[美国人叫BAGGAGE], 反而有2.5个需要时随时会SUPPORT她的人 [IN CONTRAST, MANY FEMALE IMMIGRANTS HAVE KIDS, HUSBAND, RELATIVE TO SUPPORT OR PARTIALLY SUPPORT]
2. SHE HAD THE GREEN CARD, WHICH MEANS U DO NOT HAVE TO WORRY WHETHER SHE IS USING YOU AND WILL LEAVE AFTER GETTING THE CARD.
3. SHE IS VERY THRIFTY [PAY OFF 了房子, 抱怨没钱, 这才几天哪, 又存了五六万刀了! LIKE I SAID B4 @98, if NO always fills her car's tank after she is back from work and he also pays the medical co-payments without showing her the bills cuz she does not read much English, supermarket may be the only place she has to pay!]
This means if NO thinks my EX is his wife, he does not feel he lost any money while many women are shopping like crazy and/or invest in fraud -- 人说: "有多少女人, 就有多少傻女人!"
总之还是那句话: 赚到钱的女人很多, 存到钱的女人很少!
4. DECENT JOB WITH decent medical insurance, FICA, 401K, etc. While u might think everyone has them, 中国城老太太们就算有工作也99%不可能有MED, FICA, 401K, OT......
5. SHE IS VERY HEALTHY 否则不可能六十岁了还每周五天每天站八小时发牌 [ 以前是河南小城冠军篮球队板凳队员, 我看她非活大岁数不可]
6. HER PERSONAL SKILL.
以她的各方面条件, 能在1983年把她自己和两个儿子的户口从河南小城办进北京在电力部电科院李小鹏隔壁上班还分了房子[可惜这房子三年前才卖了20多万, 这是她少有的失算], MY GOD, 那决不是盖的!
NO肯定曾有其它的选择, 但是现在两人一起已将近十年, 都不会"换轿"了!
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我为什么写此文?
回答我自己的问题: 为什么我曾经为之求生不能求死不得的大TROUBLE, HOT POTATO却是别人"手心里的宝"?
