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有家事请教酒吧的各位大佬 -- 男子汉大豆腐 - (404 Byte) 2006-3-17 周五, 11:41 (2213 reads) |
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作者：Trinity 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
(first off, 98 is a wrong place to post your msg. Tea house might be a better fit....no offense to 98 guests 
I think you can work it out because you care about her and your family. It looks like she cares about her family as well. Ask yourself and her this questions:
1. do you want to spend rest of your lives together?
2. are you happy together now?
If yes to 1st question and no to 2nd, something needs to be changed, isn't it? As long as you both still want each other, you can talk it through what makes you and her unhappy, and how both can put in efforts to make both of you happy again. Besides, unhappy marriage is not healthy for your kids.
Life can be very stressful with two kids so close in ages. The stress can be damanging to your marriage. But it will defeat the whole purpose of having kids together if marriage (tie of the family) ended up being sacrificed.
I think the key is to open dialogue with your wife. Marriage counseling (most likely covered by your insurance) can be very effective to help you open the dialogue. At minimum, i believe the counselor can help your wife to understand how powerful and important good sex is in the relationship of a man and a woman...at least, it will give your hands some break . Many Chinese feel shameful to see psychiatrists or therapists, if you wife refuses to participate, you can go by yourself. I believe you will be benefited from their professional counseling.
Sorry for throwing these words togeher. I wish i had more time to provide more contructive and well thought suggestions...good luck!
作者：Trinity 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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 有家事请教酒吧的各位大佬 -- 男子汉大豆腐 - (404 Byte) 2006-3-17 周五, 11:41 (2213 reads) - you can work it out! -- Trinity - (1604 Byte) 2006-3-19 周日, 23:55 (354 reads)
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