I can accept him to be imperfect as no one is perfect. Thats why I mentioned about understanding and appreciation in a good family.
I have been thinking about the ideal life style for myself after talking to many married and divorced pals. As you raised the question in here, I still think romance and family are both very important for me. Its probably related less with which lifestyle you want to live than the right person you are going to live with.
If s/he was passionate and creative, with a keen heart to find out the beauty of life and work, the companionship in a family would be more compatible.
Life is a happy journey and we need to enjoy it. I dont want to be alone, what about you?